I have been a "big girl" all of my life, well in my mind. Even when I was in grade school I considered myself a "big girl." Am I okay with it? Not really, but I am working on it. Most people think that it is so easy for us to change the way we are. However, it's harder than you realize. If I could just drop my pounds and live happily ever after I would but again it is not that easy. Don't get me wrong! I love every thing about me, rolls and all.
Any-who, this blog is not about just me. It is about beautiful big women that are looking for a way to relate with somebody. One major problem we have in common is DATING. As a bigger size woman I use to settle for whoever wanted me because I felt I could not be picky. I am so glad that I have changed over the years. However, it really irritates me that men usually do not pick us to have a committed relationship but as sex partners. Their approach may seem sweet at first but as time roll on, you realize that this is not a relationship but just relations. Most of us still stay because we have learned to settle for a long time. Most of the time the guy is not even our type, he is usually too short, too skinny, too controlling (kinda get the point). Maybe it time to change that, don't you think?
Tip of the Day: We have to love our self, flaws and all, to be able to love others.
